If a woman is lacking attention from her significant partner, I am here to tell you that that is a big problem which needs to be resolved asap. Else she will go searching for attention elsewhere. Today the world we live in with all the social media hype and craze, it is very easy to attain attention from other sources.
Is it the right thing to do?
How will she fulfill her needs?
It’s time to step up your game. If she is asking for more attention it is for a reason. Perhaps taking the time to sit and discuss it will help address many concerns she is having and bring awareness to any concerns you may have. You’ve heard the saying “It takes two to tango?” It takes both parties putting in the effort to make it work out, there is no other way around it. If you have ever been in a long relationship, it’s a continuous effort on both parts.
So how do you know if he really cares?
How do you know if he wants to work it through with you?
Well, you must see if he has changed his actions towards you. Has he done anything new to show he is willing to work at it? Do not turn a blind eye pretending everything will work itself out. That is not the correct attitude to have if you truly want things to blossom between the two of you. Do not neglect the intimate side of you that is hungry. It will and can have detrimental consequences if left alone.
A relationship is never a one-way street. If you notice the other person staying in their lane most of the time, then you should question what kind of position you hold in the relationship. I know, the most terrifying thing to do is question your position in a relationship which you thought was going perfect. Try to be real with yourself.
Aren’t you worthy of being in a healthy relationship?
Don’t you deserve the attention you give out?
Ok, maybe the attention you give out may not be what you get back. Every person is unique in their way of being, in their way of caring and showing affection. Do not be greedy. Appreciate the person for what they give, for the effort they are doing and give words of praise, like “thank you sweetheart.” Trust me a simple thank you will go a long way; it doesn’t take much work to give a compliment.
Sometimes we must close our eyes in order to feel, that entails accepting, it is what it is, and trying to improve on the things we can change.
I'm not only speaking to the ladies here; this goes both ways. Do not shortchange yourself for anyone because at the end of the day you know what you want, and I believe you deserve the absolute best.
I agree ? with what you have said. They both need to sit down and and talk about it. Communication is the key.